My Best Friend’s Wedding: The Gay Has Arrived

Heading into my best friend Tinker’s wedding last Friday, I didn’t know what I expected. I was JUST A GUEST at my best friend’s wedding, and I didn’t know how to take it. To say the very least, I was extremely pissed that I wasn’t part of the wedding party. I’m closer to the bride, but…

My Big Gay Birthday: Too Ordinary To Be Real

Sunday was my 27th Birthday. That’s right, I’m middle-aged in the gay world. Despite it being one of the biggest weekends of the gay calendar (gay prides, anniversary of SCOTUS ruling), it was a relatively quiet day for me. I woke up and got ready to go to church by myself, no interruptions. My family…

Answering the Awkward: Questions for a Gay Guy

Originally, I wanted to write a “## Things Gay Guys Hate to Hear,” but I was pretty sure that it’s been done. As I Google’d it, the first one that popped up was by BuzzFeed (of course) in February 2014. So in this post, I’ll just go through “20 Things Gay Guys are Sick of Hearing”…

We Remember June 12: Can Our Pulse Beat As One?

As a gay blogger, I feel that I have the responsibility to write about the ‘2016 Orlando Nightclub Shooting,’ as Wikipedia has labeled it. This post’s sole purpose is not to be informative because you can look up-to-date information about it for yourself. Information about the tragedy is still organic — growing and changing by the…

The Publicist Made Me Do It: Noah Galvin’s Apology

It’s been a while since I’ve written about a ‘current event,’ but this deserves a spotlight. The Base Article On June 9th, vulture.com released the article “Noah Galvin Has Nothing to Hide.” I barely follow along with vulture.com periodicals, and I don’t even know who Noah Galvin is, but the article made its way all…

How Do You Want It: Turn Ons

My dad has an addictive personality. When my brother and I showed my dad how to play roulette down in New Orleans, he wanted to continue playing even after we came back home, using nearly 13k at the ‘local’ casino. When my mom got him an iPhone, he finally joined the 21st century and obsesses…

Suited for Anxiety: Pressure of Shopping Alone

It’s wedding season. Being in my 20s mean that I have the distinct pleasure of seeing all my friends get married. But being an atypical gay (and not particularly working), I don’t have that much dress-up clothing. So it’s off to the store for me. Now, I have a few suits from the past. I…

The Hard Truth: The Importance of Being Penis (NSFW)

How do you describe your penis? Is it long, short or average? Thick, thin or veiny? Curved to the left, right or up? Cut, uncut or weirdly cut? Is your knob pointed, blunt or pear-shaped? Is it tan, purplish or uni-colored all over? And don’t even get me started with the balls. Whether gay or…

There’s One In Every Family: Story of the Flaming Duck

The “G” Word In August, my cousin Cici is getting married. Now, a steady stream of gossip flows throughout the extended family on an off-season, but when funerals and weddings are in the midst, the gossip increases tenfold. There’s speculation, questions, feelings and history that must be taken into account as the gossip flourishes to…

Autism Awareness Month: “Autism in Love”

Sorry that I have been MIA for a while. From December to March, I had been on holiday in Europe. I was mostly with Perseus and his family, but did travel around a bit as well. My travels will be documented in another post sometime. April is Autism Awareness Month, and in being so, Netflix…

What Is This Feeling?: The Rocky Road Through My First Gay Crush

Every gay guy gets asked this. And often, they don’t have an answer. What sort of questions would instill a sense of speechlessness from a gay individual? Did you always know you’re gay? Honestly, I am somewhat disappointed that none of my friends have questioned me on this topic. But it’s not like I would…

June 26: The Gay Holy Day (And My Birthday) #LoveWins

The News As the entire gay community knows, on the 26th of June 2015, the Supreme Court had a 5-4 ruling in favor for the right of same-sex marriage across the country. It literally broke the internet on all formats and mediums. One of the first public posting on Facebook I saw was the Human…